Humility, Casting Cares, Receiving Strength… In That Order.

Excerpt from a note to a friend :

Sounds like things are a bit rough at the moment, but I want you to know that I love you dearly and I am thankful to have you as a friend! Hang in there! I hope that it encourages you to know that I am praying for you.

During hard times, there is nothing more important than staying in the Word and daily turning each of our trials over to a Sovereign God who loves us. (So that our hurt does not cause us to stumble!)

I’m kinda going through a rough time myself, and I have a few thoughts I’m clinging to today in my difficult circumstances… I hope that you don’t mind me sharing them with you: Continue reading “Humility, Casting Cares, Receiving Strength… In That Order.”

Twelve Rules for Promoting Harmony Among Church Members

From PCA News Time Capsule:

Twelve Rules for Promoting Harmony Among Church Members
by Thomas Smyth

  1. To remember that we are all subject to failings and infirmities, of one kind or another. – Matthew 7:1-5; Rom 2:21-23.
  2. To bear with and not magnify each other’s infirmities. – Galatians 6:1-10.
  3. To pray one for another in our social meetings, and particularly in private. – James 5:9-16.
  4. To avoid going from house to house, for the purpose of hearing news, and interfering with other people’s business. – Leviticus 19:15-17.
  5. Always to turn a deaf ear to any slanderous report, and to allow no charge to be brought against any person until well founded and proved. – Proverbs 25:18-23.
  6. If a member be in fault, to tell him of it in private, before it is mentioned to others. – Matthew 18:15.
  7. To watch against shyness of each other, and put the best construction on any action that has the appearance of opposition or resentment. – Proverbs 10:12.
  8. To observe the just rule of Solomon, that is, to leave off contention before it be meddled with. – Proverbs 17:14.
  9. If a member has offended, to consider how glorious, how God-like it is to forgive, and how unlike a Christian it is to revenge. – Ephesians 4:2.
  10. To remember that it is always a grand artifice of the Devil, to promote distance and animosity among members of Churches, and we should, therefore, watch against everything that furthers his the Devil’s end. – James 3:16.
  11. To consider how much more good we can do in the world at large, and in the Church in particular when we are all united in love, than we could do when acting alone, and indulging a contrary spirit. – John 13:35.
  12. Lastly, to consider the express injunction of Scripture, and the beautiful example of Christ, as to these important things. – Ephesians 4:32; 1 Peter 2:21; John 13:5-35.

Thomas Smyth (1808-1873) was pastor of Second Presbyterian Church, Charleston, S.C.

Two One-liners

*ZING!* ;-)

This is an excerpt from a chat with a friend who is in a tough legal situation.
They are innocent of the charges, but are concerned about the rumor mill and losing friends.

(23:03:18) sja: The opinions of men do not change the truth before God.

(23:03:46) sja: Events like this don’t cause you to lose friends —
(23:03:53) sja: they cause you to see who your true friends are.

RE: Piper on Evangelism

From the previous post:

“…use our discretionary time not by maximizing our fleeting comforts but by devising ways to be a blessing to the lost and suffering.”

Man I love this line!

Read it a few times over and I know you will, too.

Our comforts are so temporary! Yet when they are just beyond our reach, we tend to deceive ourself and think that we’re “suffering” without them.

Sometimes we read lines like this and then respond in error by practicing asceticism. We become legalistic and fear pleasure… and even assign sinful motives to others who are having fun. Jealousy, perhaps? Rejoice with those who rejoice… Do not be wise in your own estimation.

Notice Piper uses the word “maximize” here. He’s not referring to “Enough is as good as a feast”. He’s talking about the attitude of “I’m going to eat until I puke and there better be more for when I’m up to eating again.” Discontentment.

When expectations are not met, we cannot think of anything else. In a sense, they become idols we worship. We’re even willing to sacrifice others upon the alters of these idols to get what we want. “I know ____ is having a hard time, but she’ll have to wait or deal with it by herself. There’s no way I’m calling her back right now. I have an appointment to __________, and if I don’t take time for ME, I’m going to miss my chance!” (How do we know we’ll never have the chance again? We rationalize and make excuses to justify the sacrifice to our comfort-idol.)

But, comforts are blessings. We need to appreciate them in that context — never as things we deserve.

Thinking of comforts as blessings – as a gift for which we can thank the Lord – vs. as a deserved reward for our being a good person – helps to curb selfish, sinful indulgence.

How quick we are to forget that only the blood of Christ can eternally satisfy the discomfort/suffering in our hearts.

2 Corinthians 12:9-10 And He has said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong.’

Hebrews 9:14-15 How much more will the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered Himself without blemish to God, cleanse your conscience from dead works to serve the living God? For this reason He is the mediator of a new covenant, so that, since a death has taken place for the redemption of the transgressions that were committed under the first covenant, those who have been called may receive the promise of the eternal inheritance.

Rather than spending time “suffering” because we’re not clicking “Book My Flight!” on an Expedia getaway package so grandiose its unaffordable – and trying to think of what items to eBay in order to pay for the trip – Piper reminds us to redeem our time by thinking about the true suffering (emotional, physical, spiritual) of others and ways “to be a blessing [a COMFORT!] to the lost and suffering” because of Christ.

Eternal comfort vs. fleeting comfort.

When we stop and say, “My temporary happiness is not as important as taking the time to share Christ with _____ by helping her to _____”, we are engaging in comfort that has an eternal value.

Matthew 6:19-21 Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Sharing this treasure with others is true evangelism.

Word study : Verses on “Comfort.”