As we drove home to Goshogawara from Misawa last night, a two hours trip in pouring rain on dark mountain roads, I looked over at Tom, who was at the wheel of our rented silver Honda minivan, and felt overwhelmed by happiness and love for him. It is so wonderful to finally be together as a family!
Our church, though this particular plant is still fledgling in nature, is filled with people who love the Lord. The pastor and his wife, Martin and Ruth Ghent, are gentle, humble, and kind. They visibly make the most of every opportunity to share the gospel with those around them, and have several outreach events going on over the course of any given day of the week. The Ghents are clear in teaching God’s word. A number of non-Believers regularly attend various church and outreach events – something not too common in the States. The Ghents are not merely teachers of the word, but “doers” of the word, as seen in James 1.
December 2nd marked the six week anniversary of my myomectomy surgery. I am feeling stronger than I have in a long time. I am very thankful to have relief of the unpleasant symptoms of the grapefruit sized uterine tumor! I no longer feel 13 weeks pregnant all the time, for one! Thank you to all of those who prayed, made meals, helped with childcare, and encouraged our family while I was healing!
Although I do not know the details of Tom’s job, he seems to be happy and satisfied with work when he comes home each day.
On Sunday mornings, two ladies and I have been meeting for Bible study at a local coffee shop. We are studying the book of John using Pastor Piper’s sermons as a guide. (If you’re reading this and are interested in participating, please feel free to listen along with us and let me know your thoughts!)
Our new house is quite large – nearly three times the size of our house in PA – and we’re excited to use it for God’s glory. The plan is to have church here next Sunday night!!
The answer to the question “how are you guys doing?” is very, very well. Our hearts are happy and we very content!
Those things being said, Japan, especially this more rural area (unlike in semi-westernized Tokyo), is very different.
Here are a few of the changes we are getting used to:
-Driving on the left side of the road.
-Driving on roads that are neither ploughed nor salted, despite inclement weather (ever road is covered in black ice this time of year, as they do not salt the roads – possibly due to damage the run-off salt does the to rice fields). Oftentimes, there are 50ft. drops on either sides of the narrow roads, with no guardrails!
-Seven trash categories to be sorted and picked up on particular days of the week – at a collection stop down the road
-Houses do not have built in heating systems (ours has the exception of heated floor in three of the rooms – kitchen, living room, and a little dressing area outside of the bathroom). Rooms are heated with kerosene space heaters, most of which have to be turned off at night due to fumes. Those rooms that are not heated with a space heater are VERY cold. At night, when it is especially cold, I can see my breath in the hallways and bathrooms.
-As a result of the heating situation, those children not sharing futons with other children have stove-warmed metal hot water bottles, covered in fabric pouches, to help keep their toes warm at night.
-We have futons on the floor instead of beds. Tom and I have separate, single futons, pushed next to each other, but always seeming to scoot apart. We’re used to snuggling, so I feel so far away from him and I don’t rest as peacefully!
-Sliding paper doors that easily tear
-Fish, fish and more fish! Put it this way, the prizes for some of the video games here are snack-packs of whole, dried fish!
-No shower – just a little faucet to wash with – before getting in the tub, which is only for soaking
-No clothes dryer. Clothing only dries in the room with the larger heater, the living room
-No shoes in the house
-Tatami mat floors – soft on the feet, but tricky to clean!!
-Peanut butter, bread and sour cream are in short supply
-Shopping carts that are only big enough for the little plastic baskets – you push baskets around in the cart, then lift the basket out at checkout
-Tinier fruits and veggies. Think bell peppers the size of kiwis!
-Time difference of 14 hours ahead of Pennsylvania time
-Outgoing mail must be taken to the post office – the mailman only comes if something is to be delivered.
-Quail eggs
-Two burner gas stove with 6″ x 10″ fish broiler – no oven
-“Squatting toilets”, which give some of our children such anxiety that one of them has had two BM accidents within two days!!
…and do have to mention the language barrier??
The arrival of or belongings from the states has been delayed – something about the ship itself – and we are awaiting information. We are still living out of suitcases, with no furniture, with the exception of futon mattresses, to boot.
The point is that, while we are quite happy, there are many changes to get used to – and all at once!
Please know that we are well. Rejoice with us that we are together as a family and have much love for one another, and have our physical needs and spiritual needs met. Keep us in prayer as we go through these adjustments, and as we seek to be a light to those around us.
Two particular physical need to pray over:
1. Our car situation. Our rental car is due back tomorrow, but leasing a car has proven to be more complicated than originally thought, and may take another few weeks. Please pray that our transportation needs will be met in the mean time! Carpooling always provides for interesting conversation and a captive audience :)
2. Shipment of household goods. Although it’s just “stuff” – it would be super-cool to have the children’s toys, snow suits and winter gear, and our kitchen items!
